You may be curious about something new, frustrated by familiar patterns, or ready to have conversations you've been putting off. I offer sex-positive therapy for individuals, couples, and intimate partners, specializing in ethical non-monogamy providing BDSM, kink, and LGBTQIA+ affirming care. Together, we'll explore what's getting in the way and work toward intimacy that feels more satisfying to you.
You're experiencing concerns with sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, or painful sex.
You want to better understand your desires, gender, gender identity, or relationship preferences.
Shame, anxiety, or past experiences make it difficult to enjoy sex or express yourself.
You're exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, or BDSM and want knowledgeable, affirming support.
You don't need a partner to work on your sex life. Individual sex therapy offers a space to explore your desires, identity, pleasure, and the beliefs and experiences that shape how you feel about yourself and your sexuality. Bring your questions, your uncertainties, and the things you haven't felt comfortable talking about elsewhere.
Together, we'll explore what's getting in the way of the sexual experiences you want and what you'd like to feel or experience differently. Our work may include navigating sexual concerns, understanding your desires, communicating boundaries, exploring non-monogamy, or building greater confidence in your sexuality. Sessions are online, wherever you are in California.
You want each partner to feel heard, understood, and valued in your relationship.
You're considering opening your relationship or navigating ethical non-monogamy.
Jealousy, comparison, or unclear boundaries are affecting your connection.
You're working through infidelity, broken trust, or past relationship wounds.
Differences in sexual desire, interests, or intimacy needs are creating tension.
You care about your relationship, but navigating differences in desire, intimacy, boundaries, or expectations isn't always easy. I work with couples and intimate partners in monogamous, ethically non-monogamous, and polyamorous relationships, including relationships involving more than two partners.
Together, we'll explore each person's needs and perspectives, work through differences and recurring patterns, and develop clearer ways of communicating and connecting. Whether you're navigating mismatched desires, jealousy, trust concerns, or changing relationship dynamics, we'll work toward greater understanding, stronger connections, and agreements that everyone understands and freely chooses.
You're looking for education, resources, or connections to kink-aware communities.
You experience shame, guilt, or fear of judgment about your sexual interests.
You want to communicate more openly and clearly about consent, boundaries, or power dynamics.
You and your partner(s) have different sexual interests and want help navigating those differences.
You're curious about kink or BDSM and want support exploring your interests.
You deserve to talk openly about kink with a therapist who understands the nuances and can ask thoughtful questions. I offer BDSM and kink-affirming therapy for individuals, couples, and intimate partners, whether you're just beginning to explore or have been part of these communities for years.
Together, we can explore desire, consent, power dynamics, and the emotions that come with them. Whether you're navigating feelings of shame, questioning long-held beliefs, or simply wanting to better understand your interests, we'll approach those conversations with curiosity and without judgment. My goal is to help you explore what feels right for you, communicate your boundaries, and make informed choices about your sexual experiences.
Therapy can involve difficult conversations, but it can also be a time you genuinely look forward to. I bring warmth, authenticity, and humor when it fits, creating opportunities for meaningful conversations that don't always have to feel so serious. My hope is that our time together becomes something you value and look forward to each week.
I bring specialized knowledge, clinical experience, and thoughtful insight to our work together. Beyond simply listening, I help you recognize patterns, explore different perspectives, and better understand the complexity of your experiences. You can expect collaborative, intentional and menaingful conversations filled with practice guidance and focused on what matters most to you.
I believe therapy should help you feel more informed, empowered, and confident in making choices that feel right for you. Rather than imposing expectations about your sexuality or relationships, I'll help you explore your options, understand your needs, and make decisions that reflect your values and desires.
I bring warmth, patience, authenticity, and a little humor to our conversations. My goal is to create a space where you can speak openly about your sexuality, relationships, and experiences without feeling judged or misunderstood. You don't have to filter yourself or have everything figured out before we talk.
You don't need to know which service is right for you before reaching out. Tell me a little about what's on your mind, ask any questions you have, and get a feel for what it might be like to work together. We'll discuss what you're looking for and whether therapy with me makes sense for you.